Everyone deserves to be confident about their bodies and feel good about their sex lives. The Netflix show Sex Education is doing it just right. To skip all other amazing storylines from this sex-liberating and taboo-breaking show, we are only going to focus on one character here – Aimee Gibbs.


Aimee Gibbs Sex Education

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Aimee was one of the most popular girls in the Moordale Secondary School but she had problems prioritising her own needs. Whenever people ask Aimee for help, she always compiles even though she's in the middle of her own business. She doesn’t want to upset anybody and she also ignores her own feelings. We call this type of persona “people pleaser” which is common and sometimes it’s easier for all of us to just say “yes” than “no”. Aimee compromised her own priorities not just in daily life to please others, also in her sex life.
 
When she was in a relationship with her boyfriend Adam Groff, she always just does what the porno movies tell people what feels good when having sex. All the moves she did with him, the way she moaned, and how she wanted him to treat her body, none of them brough pleasure to her. When Aimee and Adam were having break-up sex in the lab on the counter, Aimee looked like she was just physically there “for the memories”, but she wasn’t enjoying it at all. Instead, Adam was the one pounding hard and had his full presence physically and mentally.

 

Aimee Gibbs and Adam Groff

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Things start to change after Aimee starts dating Steve Morley, a new student to Moordale. Steve deliberately asked Aimee to tell him what she wants in bed and he will do it for her. Aimee was so confused and surprised at first because nobody ever asked her this question and she doesn’t know what she wants either! Aimee reached out the “sex therapist” Otis Milburn for help and she told Otis “I always fake my orgasm!” and she made it sounds so normal. Otis encourages Aimee to discover her own body and change her perspective to prioritize her pleasure. Aimee went back home, did some research and some intense experimenting, she found the gate to heaven, woohoo!! Yes, you go Aimee! From that point onwards, Aimee is no longer the old people-pleaser. She’s a brand-new young lady who knows what she likes for her body and she’s not afraid to speak her mind. This little bird grew up and became more independent. You should see her face the second day when she is in school sharing this with her friend Meave Willey. I was jealous of that happy face!

Aimee Giibs orgasm face

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Despite the horrible event that had happened on the bus to Aimee, she is still one of those lucky ones that her partner liberated her to prioritize her sexual pleasure. However, it’s our own duty to discover ourselves from the inside out. We as women need to know the anatomy of clitoris first before we tell our sexual partner how much we love clit orgasm. There are two excellent ways to stimulate clit orgasm: vibration stimulation and suction. We are only talking about the solo fun. To play with a partner/partners, that is another story.
 
You can press the vibrator against your clitoris and gently go around tiny circles to mimic the thumb to start with. Depending on your mood, you can adjust the intensity of the vibrator as you go, but in general our bodies like something tender to start with. It’s like a gentle kiss from your lover, either on your lips or on your nipples. As it gets more excited, you can either crank it up to a higher intensity on your vibrator, or you can change to a more direct stimulation – clitoris suction. We can’t emphasize this enough, clit is a gift from the universe to all the women to compensate for all the pain women have to go through, because the 8,000 nerves there only serve one purpose – pleasure. However, our bodies are built very differently. Some might find using vibrator is comfortable and some might find suction toys too intense to handle. It takes time and practise to be a master of your mind and your body. Rachel Venning established some amazing tips and tricks in her book Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Min-Blowing Sex. Check it out and get inspired and get your mind blown away! Here is The No BS Guide to Clitoral Stimulation from Jennifer Chesak at Health Line Magazine
 
Do you want to know how you can discover your body in a safe way? Sex toy, sex toy, sex toy. G-Spa toy is a multifunctional, innovative and ergonomic toy that serves both purposes – it has both vibration mode and suction mode. Here is the YouTube video of its instruction. The tail part of the toy is for the vibrator mode. You press the flat part against your clitoris and go around tiny circles to massage it. Unlike other vibrators that have a sphere shape, the flat massager can cover more skin and mimic human thumb much better. With the C-shape toy design and the smooth silicone material, it’s easy to grab and position it even if you have smaller hands which most women do. The other end of this toy is the suction mouth for clit orgasm, oh yeah. Always apply water-based lubricant on your clit before using any clit suction toys. Even if you are playing alone, still be safe first. The G-Spa toy integrated the advanced sonic pulsation technology that generates deep, subtle and powerful stimulation from the tiny mouth part to your 8,000 nerves to reach slit orgasm. The suction mode of the G-Spa toy has 3 different levels. You can start with the lowest one which is recommended to start with. Over time and practise, you can level up to a higher level and enjoy different and more intense clit orgasm experiences.

G-Spa Toy Cuddly Buddy Collection

 

Another amazing feature of this toy is, both sucktion mode and vibration mode can be on at the same time. Do you see where this is going? Meaning two females can enjoy one toy for mutual stimulation spontaneously. 

If you think the G-Spa toy is not your cup of tea or not design-savvy enough, we also have the Cuddly Bird toy which is a RedDot Design Award winner in 2019 that a sex toy combined with a mood night lamp. Check the user instruction of the Cuddly Bird

 

Cuddly Bird Toy Night Lamp

 

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